The belief that philosophical thinking begins with the human subject—not merely the thinking subject, but the acting, feeling, living human individual,in spite of many existential obstacles and distractions including despair, angst, absurdity, alienation, and boredom.
Despair in existentialism is more specifically related to the reaction to a breakdown in one or more of the defining qualities of one's self or identity. If a person is invested in being a particular thing, such as a bus driver or an upstanding citizen, and then finds his being-thing compromised, they would normally be found in state of despair—a hopeless state. For example, an athlete who loses his legs in an accident may despair if he has nothing else to fall back on, nothing on which to rely for his identity. He finds himself unable to be that which defined his being.
(From wikipedia)
Persons with disabilities(read stuttering), may consiously or sub consiously relate their identity with the disability and their efforts to manage or overcome it. As my title says "I stutter" but I try my best to manage it for the sake of effective communication, try to relate with groups related to stuttering for more suport and awareness of this disability , try to contribute to the economy in an uplifting way and to live a life in pursuit of happiness like every other single person on this planet.
To end the post,as someone said, its not the destination,but the journey that matters more
