Know ones strength by counting their enemies.
Let me count my enemies. Hmm. I cant come out with any one. I must be so meek and weak then. :(
When you judge someone it doesn’t define who they are, it defines who you are.
See every person as they are - non judgmental and non-accusative.
See even oneself as one is - non judgmental and non-accusative.
Mates whose expectations i could not stand up to and Mates who could not stand up to my expectations. Ex-girlfriend whom i could not stand up to , who cut me off and never communicates with me . Its just she being she. My new crushes who just crush me. Its just them being them.
Me, who can often be lazy, committing big blunders . Like searching for a partner at the wrong places and at the wrong times. Like not exactly working on my bloody stutter but writing on a blog all the time. Its just me being me.
Its just everyone being as they are. There is no conflict of mind ,ego or need of improvement when one starts to see and accept others and things as they are.
And a realization that deep beneath, when we see our-self without the body and mind(thoughts), all is just one - One Life which manifests as different beings.